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The "Exit Myth" Most Founders Believe—And How It Costs Them Millions

May 13, 20254 min read

Let’s talk about the Exit Myth—the story that too many smart founders believe, that quietly kills their payout, their options, and their legacy.

What is it?
It’s the belief that one day,
some magical, undefined “later”—you’ll just decide to sell your business... and it’ll be worth millions.

Spoiler alert: it won’t.

This is the myth that keeps business owners stuck in reactive mode, grinding in the day-to-day, ignoring the strategic work of building a sellable asset.

And it’s costing founders millions.


What Is the Exit Myth?

The Exit Myth goes like this:

“I’ll work hard, keep growing, and when I’m ready, someone will want to buy my business for top dollar.”

Sounds harmless, right?

But this story glosses over a very big reality check:
Businesses don’t sell just because the owner is ready. They sell because the business is ready.

And most aren’t.

Only about 20% of small to mid-sized businesses actually sell. That means 4 out of 5 founders never see a return on the business they spent years building.

Why? Because they waited too long and didn’t build for the exit.


Common Exit Myths That Sabotage Founders

Let’s break down the most common versions of this belief—and why each one is dangerously wrong:

❌ “I’ll sell when I’m tired or burned out.”

That’s like trying to sell your car after it breaks down on the highway. Burnout is not a business strategy. A sale takes momentum, not exhaustion.

❌ “I’m not thinking about selling yet, so I don’t need to prep.”

Exit planning isn’t about selling tomorrow—it’s about building a business that’s valuable and optional. Even if you never sell, you’ll run a better company.

❌ “Someone will want it because it’s profitable.”

Not enough. Buyers want systems, leadership, clean books, and a business that doesn’t depend on you. Profit is only one piece of the puzzle.

❌ “I’ll figure it out when the time comes.”

Exit prep takes 12 to 36 months, minimum. If you wait until you're “ready,” you're already behind.


How the Exit Myth Costs You

The most brutal part of this lie?
It doesn’t just cost founders
deals—it costs them millions in value.

When you build for exit early, you have leverage. You create a business that buyers compete for. You get a higher multiple. You walk away with options.

When you don’t?
You’re stuck negotiating from a place of burnout, desperation, or worse—realizing no one wants to buy what you built.


What To Do Instead: Build to Sell (Even If You Never Sell)

At Stealth: Freedom To Exit, we help founders reverse-engineer a sellable business, years before they ever plan to exit.

Because when you build for freedom, sellability is just a bonus.

Here’s what that looks like in action:

✅ A leadership team that runs operations without you
✅ Systems and SOPs that create repeatable outcomes
✅ Recurring revenue and diversified client base
✅ Clean, audited financials
✅ Documented growth plan and market positioning
✅ Clear exit options—even if you decide not to sell

This isn’t theory. It’s the difference between a business you have to keep running… and one that runs (and sells) with or without you.


Ask Yourself This…

  • Could your business operate for a month without you?

  • If someone made you an offer today, would you be ready?

  • Do you even know what your business is worth right now?

If your answer is “no” or “not sure,” the myth is already costing you.

But it doesn’t have to keep doing that.


Let’s Rewrite Your Exit Story

Here’s the truth:

📌 The best time to start exit planning was 2 years ago.
📌 The second best time is
right now.

Whether you want to sell in 6 months, 6 years, or never, building an exit-ready business is your ticket to real freedom. Time freedom. Financial freedom. Legacy.

And you don’t have to do it alone.


Free Resources to Go Further:

📌 7 Ways AI Can Boost Your Sales and Save You Time – Download this free guide:
👉
https://ai.activatetoascend.com/get-7ways-ai

📌 3 Ways Your Business Can Use AI TODAY to Stop Leaking Money – Save your seat for the free live webinar:
👉
https://webinar.activatetoascend.com/webinar-register-general

📌 Changes Assessment – Discover where your business is leaking time, money, and momentum:
👉
https://stealthfreedomtoexit.com/changes


Lani Dickinson is a former Fortune 175 CEO turned business strategist and founder of Freedom To Exit. With decades of executive leadership experience, Lani helps self-led entrepreneurs transform their companies into scalable, sellable assets—so they can achieve true time, location, and financial freedom. As the host of the Freedom To Exit podcast, she delivers straight-talking insights, powerful frameworks, and actionable strategies for business owners ready to exit for more.

Lani Dickinson

Lani Dickinson is a former Fortune 175 CEO turned business strategist and founder of Freedom To Exit. With decades of executive leadership experience, Lani helps self-led entrepreneurs transform their companies into scalable, sellable assets—so they can achieve true time, location, and financial freedom. As the host of the Freedom To Exit podcast, she delivers straight-talking insights, powerful frameworks, and actionable strategies for business owners ready to exit for more.

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